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Stop Caring About The Opinions of Others
Posted: Mon May 10, 2021 7:49 am
by HPBlackMamba
Re: Stop Caring About The Opinions of Others
Posted: Mon May 10, 2021 3:20 pm
by Jeff
Mamba do you have any tips for improving self-esteem and confidence?
Re: Stop Caring About The Opinions of Others
Posted: Tue May 11, 2021 5:04 pm
by Snakeway
You have ADHD, why does your self help knowledge doesn´t help you with this. Oh wait, it´s your white genes fault....
Re: Stop Caring About The Opinions of Others
Posted: Tue May 11, 2021 6:06 pm
by HPBlackMamba
Snakeway wrote: ↑Tue May 11, 2021 5:04 pm
You have ADHD, why does your self help knowledge doesn´t help you with this. Oh wait, it´s your white genes fault....
If you don't like our philosophy, then don't follow it. You are still welcome here though regardless.
Re: Stop Caring About The Opinions of Others
Posted: Tue May 11, 2021 6:14 pm
by RagingCloud4050
Jeff. Among the best way to improve one's self esteem is to succeed in something. To show discipline.
Now if you meditate every day you are continuously doing something that benefits you. You are also showing discipline by doing it every day.
Also you could go on a short no fap journey. 7 days or something.
This is something that will make you feel better about yourself because It is easy to get that pleasure. By not fapping for s7 days you prove you control your body not your desires. You succeed at what you set out to do and in turn that success should boost your self esteem.
You could also smile at yourself in the mirror for a little bit.
Also every time you have negative thoughts. Think of positive thoughts.
Re: Stop Caring About The Opinions of Others
Posted: Tue May 11, 2021 6:18 pm
by HPBlackMamba
RagingCloud4050 wrote: ↑Tue May 11, 2021 6:14 pm
Jeff. Among the best way to improve one's self esteem is to succeed in something. To show discipline.
Now if you meditate every day you are continuously doing something that benefits you. You are also showing discipline by doing it every day.
Also you could go on a short no fap journey. 7 days or something.
This is something that will make you feel better about yourself because It is easy to get that pleasure. By not fapping for s7 days you prove you control your body not your desires. You succeed at what you set out to do and in turn that success should boost your self esteem.
You could also smile at yourself in the mirror for a little bit.
Also every time you have negative thoughts. Think of positive thoughts.
I agree with what raging cloud is suggesting here about meditation and the mirror. However, I disagree with the no fap journey advice. Meditation also teaches you discipline. When you become quiet everyday and look inwardly it is very beneficial.
Re: Stop Caring About The Opinions of Others
Posted: Tue May 11, 2021 9:40 pm
by RagingCloud4050
Suggested a short no fap journey as its an easy thing to succeed at and once they get that taste of success people generally continue to improve. Tbh it could also be running a mile everyday. Doing 100 sit ups everyday. Just something you can do everyday that you can succeed at.
Even a short 5 push ups a day.