Nah. Man. People can tell when they can take someone for a ride. Its intuitive. The simple truth of the matter is that if you do not stick up for yourself no one will ever respect you. Why should they their is no need to do so to take from you.Urban Zombie wrote: ↑Sun Nov 14, 2021 2:34 am
Yeah and it's people like you that created a world where this kind of thing happens to us.
Humans only value that which is hard for them to obtain. This works in dating. It works in friendships. It works in life. If they don't have to work to earn your respect they do not give a fuck. They will not value it and as such they will not value you as a person. For example have you ever worked out and you found that food tasted better after wards. This is because you worked for it. If you stay in doing the same thing. You get bored. If all you are is happy it will not feel as good. It will lose its luster.
Instant gratification might be fun in the short term. But long term it leaves you hooked to that fix. And it slowly gets less and less. Until soon their is a void inside you that nothing can fill.
In video game logic you may understand imagine you are playing a game on god mode. You might have a little fun but eventually you would get bored of their being no challenge. You would pick a harder game to play because the challenge makes it fun.
https://www.elitereaders.com/performanc ... xperiment/
This artist stood still for 6 hours and because she let the public do whatever it wanted. The people their rapidly took the chance to humiliate her. Ergo if you have no boundaries at all people will use you and will not give a fuck.