Stupid to ask but ..

[Seeker83]

So I have talked about the issue with most American women being self absorbed and shallow, etc .bso I wanted something a little bit more traditional. I had hoped an English lady might be different. I met an English lady. She's no different from the rest. I was really upset because at first she seemed into me and said she liked me etc but she didn't say how. She often made sexual jokes. See I have no issue in getting a piece of ass but I want something stable and long term. She definitely said she wanted to "fuck" me but I'm not shallow and do really live like man whore or a man ho. She was drunk too when she said it. She remembers. She's the one she just wanted to be friends with benefits. I mean wtf. When I said no, she flipped out on me. I mean totally crazy. I told her I don't show affection to a girl who is just a friend. I'm strictly platonic. It was bad on her reaction.

Should I ditch her or keep her around?

[AnonPoster]

Most western women unfortunately are superficial and corrupted. You would have better luck marrying or going after a white woman from somewhere else if you are a white. There are some who are in the same situation you are but think most western men are superficial and corrupted (they are as well) may I suggest Romania or Eastern Europe (too bad some people might know who I am on JOS just for suggesting that location) that is by far better than "America" basically a literal sewer and the Great Satan as its called but here we should call it the great Jehovah!

[Seeker83]

Most western women unfortunately are superficial and corrupted. You would have better luck marrying or going after a white woman from somewhere else if you are a white. There are some who are in the same situation you are but think most western men are superficial and corrupted (they are as well) may I suggest Romania or Eastern Europe (too bad some people might know who I am on JOS just for suggesting that location) that is by far better than "America" basically a literal sewer and the Great Satan as its called but here we should call it the great Jehovah!

Yeah I am white. I prefer a white woman. Where is eastern Europe? And Romania?

[Velcro]

Better go to Ukraine. They are the most beautiful and family oriented women.

[Seeker83]

I appreciate all the suggestions it is helpful because it will narrow down on finding a potential partner. I could use a spell to attract such.

[Varun]

Sometimes people start acting differently and start wanting different things once they start thinking they they maybe met really suitable potential partner.

Don't think you can't find absolutely nobody good in your country, try to actually get rid of your emotional and sexual hangups and bad karma first, work on yourself and try to have females think how you might be really good partner to them. They might beg you to make them children even those who said they will never even consider such a thing. I know plenty of people who said they aren't into it and into serious relationships, but they started changing after a while once they started thinking that someone really good might be there for them. Maybe also give some girls more chances and try to have them think how you can really make them happy, it should work at least with some, tho don't be too pushy, it can be cringe.

[Seeker83]

Sometimes people start acting differently and start wanting different things once they start thinking they they maybe met really suitable potential partner.

Don't think you can't find absolutely nobody good in your country, try to actually get rid of your emotional and sexual hangups and bad karma first, work on yourself and try to have females think how you might be really good partner to them. They might beg you to make them children even those who said they will never even consider such a thing. I know plenty of people who said they aren't into it and into serious relationships, but they started changing after a while once they started thinking that someone really good might be there for them. Maybe also give some girls more chances and try to have them think how you can really make them happy, it should work at least with some, tho don't be too pushy, it can be cringe.

I'm not sure if I want anything to do with her. She pissed me off with some stuff she said to me and I was really upset. Unusually cruel. If she's right into causal sex from the get go and then she blamed it on the fact she was drunk. That's a huge turn off because I thought she was into me from the way she was before we got into a fight.She turned the situation around to make me in the wrong when I said I can't be friends with someone I'm attracted to and well. Causal sex isn't my thing. She also used the excuse about us living miles apart and I told her if we stayed in touch I would eventually meet her. I mean that told me everything.

[Varun]

Sometimes people start acting differently and start wanting different things once they start thinking they they maybe met really suitable potential partner.

Don't think you can't find absolutely nobody good in your country, try to actually get rid of your emotional and sexual hangups and bad karma first, work on yourself and try to have females think how you might be really good partner to them. They might beg you to make them children even those who said they will never even consider such a thing. I know plenty of people who said they aren't into it and into serious relationships, but they started changing after a while once they started thinking that someone really good might be there for them. Maybe also give some girls more chances and try to have them think how you can really make them happy, it should work at least with some, tho don't be too pushy, it can be cringe.

I'm not sure if I want anything to do with her. She pissed me off with some stuff she said to me and I was really upset. Unusually cruel. If she's right into causal sex from the get go and then she blamed it on the fact she was drunk. That's a huge turn off because I thought she was into me from the way she was before we got into a fight.She turned the situation around to make me in the wrong when I said I can't be friends with someone I'm attracted to and well. Causal sex isn't my thing. She also used the excuse about us living miles apart and I told her if we stayed in touch I would eventually meet her. I mean that told me everything.

Well maybe you two just have bad synergy, but you need to try to understand other people as well. And why do you think that everyone who doesn't want family or doesn't feel ready to have family must be some huge scum or shallow and corrupted? Or who is into other types of relationships or just simply wants sex and to have some friends of the opposite gender? Also don't develop victim mentality attitude and start saying how all the girls are the same blah blah, every girl wants the same. This is not the true and is making guys unattractive and they turn into hateful losers. As well as this will have you carry bad karma.

You might not like some things, but that is it and don't allow yourself to see situation that much worse than it actually is.

Also you can try just moving on and try to find someone else, she is not the only one anyway. But overall try not to be too hateful and don't develop victim mentality. This is my friendly advice to you.

[Seeker83]

Ok I appreciate all the responses. Definitely helpful. I already have enough trouble with women and well I'm at a point to think all women are the same but that English woman was a Christian and to act like the way she did towards me made me gain clarity

[Velcro]

All women are the same? Clearly the problem is YOU.

For a guy who doesn't know how to look on a map, calling westerners superficial...You are right, all women are the same. You have some serious ORIENTATION problems. Try dating men. All your problems fixed.