Snakeway wrote: ↑Tue Nov 02, 2021 12:38 pm
No narcissist is charismatic, they are not connected to what people feel, and are very controlative and neurotic, because even the small deed that goes against their false narrative of grandiosity is enough to trigger their rage vengeful mode. When you are in the presence of a NPD the rule is you have to anulate yourself as much as possible for not get in a conflict. They have no clue about anything.
When they want to make a flying monkey out of you then they make you feel in heaven and all your wishes will be granted, but I don't consider this charisma, it is just false promesses.
Try to use the placebo effect in infection diseases then when you die of Sepsis you will see how this really works.
There is alot of hate at successfull people because the success of others harms many false image of people out there. Those personalitty disorders are a miserable attempt to explain the christian behaviour and spiritual degraded condition of christians.
Narcissist= create a false image about himself and try to destroy those who don't feed this false Image
Christianity= Tell a lie about everything and burn people on the stick for not believing it.
In my opinion the Narcissist is a person rised in a heavy christian environment, and as they realise how the merit and feedbacks are all inverted and fake, they decide to try to turn the christian way of success in their favor. But they fail miserably, just as christianity, and also never admitting or realising why it fails.
If you want to be treated like the Devil in this world all you need to do is start to be truthfull about what people are and what it is going on. There are many small personal projects of power out there and it is all based on false image.
False image ''I am the next hitler in the new era''
Truthfull ''but you are a race mixer and a non white''
False image''DESTROY, DESTROY''
You are a fucking idiot. The mind body connection is very real.
True you cannot heal an injury or a disease. But your self image matters.
Your true subconscious view of yourself.
This is because of the part of the brain called the reticular cortex. The one responsible for reinforcing what you subconsciously believe. Not what you want. Not what you need. Not what you desire. But what you subconsciously believe.
Your subconscious self image controls how you think. What you do. How you behave.
Those who have true narcissism hold a very high view of themselves. And this affects others because most people have internalized that they should not try that they are victims. They flip flop between beliefs like bitches. Or they join other groups for security because they themselves are not secure in who they are without it.
Maxine. Text book narcisists. She had a very high view of herself. Her self image reflected this. As such when you meet her In person. You will find yourself believing her. Doing things for her. Letting her take credit. She made a cult despite being a shit person. Don danko is still whining about her 15 years later ergo he has subconsciously not gotten over what she did to him and still hates her. If he had gotten over it he would be apathetic at best. He would not keep mentioning her.
Hitler. Another text book example of someone having total faith in themselves and their abilities. He was a cruel being but because he had high self image. (Charisma) he inspired people. Brought them into his frame of mind.
People call narcisists insecure. And yet everybody does things for them anyway. They accept being treated like garbage just to be around them. The idea that the narcissist is insecure is literally the biggest cope I have ever seen.
You see when you have such a high level of belief in yourself. In your superiority. You communicate it non verbally. It can literally be felt by people.
But people who have been hurt by narcisists. Project the fact that they must be insecure.
When every narcisist I have ever met has had boundaries. And insecure person has none. Has not been afraid of confrontation. If an insecure person is confronted they will run. Or agree with you. A narcisist is a social butterfly. Capable of fucking the hottest woman and men at will. The insecure person is avoided in relationships unless they can offer something. Money. Looks. Height. (Nice guy/Nice girl)
And even then women will make the insecure person wait for like months while they sleep with the narc within 45 minutes of meeting them. The insecure person fears speaking freely about what they believe. They may believe they hate black people. But they will have black friends. The narc if they do not like you they will say it. They fear nothing.
The narc can be a broke bitch or man. They can be fat. They can be butt ugly. And people will accommodate them ridiculously. My father was one. He was the life of the party. Could walk into a job but hated working. He was a terrible human being but was supremely confident and people noticed.
Now the people that got away. They call themselves strong. Confident yatta yatta. But when I went to see them they were downright miserable and they hated me. Because they had not truly fixed who they were inside.
Confidence has never come from. Clothes. Looks. (Although if you are attractive people will treat you better. Look up the halo effect.) Wealth. Power. Whatever. It has always come from your level of self belief.
True genuine confidence is noticeable. People will literally come up to you irl offering you things. You can walk into a room and do nothing. And people will talk about how great you are when you meet them a couple of days later. You will have successful people falling over themselves to offer you jobs. Especially in sales.
Because you can mesmerize the room you walk into. You can mesmerize the audience. And that is very valuable to large companies.
You could literally have no qualifications and you would still get the job over someone who did.
Trust me. Charisma/Confidence > Everything else. The fact that people consider a high level of self belief the "IT Factor" is so disappointing. It just shows that most people know nothing.
Snakeway the simple fact you said you had black friends and yet post on here about how you hate blacks. Basically makes you an insecure little bitch. If you were not you would cut them off cold turkey.
Also of note this a white dude telling you this. So fix being a little bitch. Stand by what you value so much. Or keep being a little bitch. It makes no difference to me.