Seeker83 wrote: ↑Sun Jan 30, 2022 1:42 pm
Ok so I been trying to reach out to others. I'm not referring to anyone individual personally but it's happened too many times so I'm talking about it. Some have some nerve to use some awful excuses against me. Like I'm a transgender man and some people have tried gaslighting me. At first these people I thought were nice and was hoping to become a friend ends up doing just that
Basically it's when when someone says "oh you come across like a lady to me" that's really insulting and they expect me not to get pissed off? I mean... Come on, you know I'm a dude. Why does it piss me off because it's basically saying you don't acknowledge the real me. And technically they are projecting their true selves onto me. I'm a RESPECTFUL person. I have did that to anyone. So it's a question if I will be disrespected again.
I also noticed some people who are confused about their "gender" yet think they may be trans is not a trans person, If one isn't living in a situation where you can't be who you are that's one thing like abuse or oppression of any kind but if you live on your own and still confused, you aren't trans. Because you would KNOW. So it's not a choice or a lifestyle, it's something you are born with. One could be just a masculine woman yet still a woman, same goes for feminine men yet still a man.
I know this isn't in relation to Satanism or anything but I do want opinions on this situation. I hold my own opinion.
Seeker I also want to add something on the subject...I previously had a misconception about you, before getting to read more, for which reason, from a person to a person, please forgive me. I won't stick around here long enough and I want to make sure that I take this opportunity to say it as I feel guilty.
Going back at friends or people disappointing us... is normal regardless of gender, sexual orientation or anything else. Just keep on searching the right people to understand you there are billions of people don't get hurt by anybody. There will always be a struggle for anybody in this department.
I also look at myself thinking I wasn't always the best friend with everybody all the time most of the times from ignorance sometimes from other reasons.
As you said before, nobody is perfect the change starts with us/within.
For me personally is easier to focus less on relating to people, better focus on other activities.
Maybe relating online is not such a good idea either?! Just saying ...
I admire you for having the courage to express yourself and be happy....and I wish you to carry on happily in your journey and path!